Curious to know what men truly look for when they want to enter a committed relationship?
Good looks are a huge benefit for a girl trying to catch a man’s attention . But it’s not enough to make him fall in love and dream about building a long and happy relationship.
While great relationships start with mutual attraction, in the long run the relationship is destined to fail if the couple lack compatibility. Curious to know what men truly look for when they want to enter a committed relationship?
A Good Listener. Most men appreciate women who are able to just listen – no “ I told you so” lines, no lectures, tips or comments regarding what you would do if you were in his place. You know… just sitting, listening (and I mean REALLY listening)… just showing that you care.
Oh, and that involves being patient as well, understanding that most men need to “process” their problems before they can talk about them and learning to say, “Okay, baby, whenever you want to talk about it – I’m here for you”
A Sense of Humor. A woman might be drop-dead gorgeous, but she will never win a place in a man’s heart unless she has the ability to make him laugh.
A great sense of humor is the perfect way to alleviate stress and allows the couple to bond. A witty joke or an occasional sneaky, light-hearted prank will score a woman big time points with her man.
Caring. He really wants to know that you care for him but, be careful, because repeating “I love you” until he can’t take it anymore isn’t a good way to let him know how you feel. An average man will tell you that he loves you once and show you how much he loves you five times. You should do the same.
Baby him when he’s sick or tired, surprise him every once in a while, listen to his problems – SHOW him everything you wanted to tell him because this quality is one of the very important things men like in women
A Willingness to Accept His Flaws. One of the keys to a healthy relationship is understanding that your partner is not perfect.
This is why men want women who are not overly critical and who don’t seek to change them. If a woman can love him for his goofy fashion sense or his eccentric personality, they are on their way to relationship success.
Ready to Compromise. Every man feels better when he knows his lady is ready to negotiate and work hard to find a solution that will be acceptable for both sides so hope you’re ready to compromise girls, because, although guys like boobs and long legs, they all agree this non-physical quality is far more important.
Confidence. A good boyfriend strives to make his Significant Other feel special, but there is nothing sexier than a woman who understands her own worth.
Men might like a girl with a pretty face and nice figure, but if she is in need of constant reassurances that they are attractive or cannot accept a compliment, it will eventually wear a guy down and he will move on to a woman who is happy with who she is.
Strong. The last but not the least – one of the best things men like in women, a quality like no others, a virtue that no woman of today could live without – strength.
You don’t have to lose your best damsel in distress act, in fact, you can even let him “save” you once in a while, but he has to know you’ll be there in case things start to get ugly.
He has to know that there is a strong rock he can grab for under that delicate butterfly facade of yours – a woman he can count on